As much as we would prefer otherwise, life includes its measure of unpleasant and unfavorable circumstances. In dealing with difficult people, facing unhealthy relationships, in family relationships, or in the midst of marriage problems, clashes occur. We might even say that some of our relationships are the very definition of conflict! We ask ourselves, how can we possibly avoid conflict in these emotionally-charged situations? In the book “Avoid Clashes”, Gnani Puru...

Those seeking to lead a spiritual life inevitably face challenges in their sincere pursuit of spirituality and practice. As spiritual development progresses, facing the many unintentional mistakes made through mind, speech, and conduct can become disconcerting. Naturally one begins to wonder, “Is it too late to apologize?”, “How to forgive and forget in unhealthy relationships?” and, “How to forgive yourself - both for mistakes of the past and for ongoing mistakes in...

Who hasn’t asked themselves what there is to life beyond just living? What is true purpose in life? There must be higher purpose than just living… In the book “Who am I?”, Gnani Purush (embodiment of Self knowledge) Dada Bhagwan describes that one’s ultimate life purpose is to find an answer to the age-old unanswered question of spiritual seekers: Who am I, and who is the ‘doer’ of all that happens in life? Dadashri also resolves questions such as: “What is the nat...

Anger management is a popular and necessary topic in today’s world. In dealing with difficult people, in our family relationships, or in facing marriage problems, we simply do not know how to deal with anger! When dealing with anger, we may wonder, “Am I right?” or “How can I make myself understood?” Some of our relationships can be said to be the very definition of conflict! Lacking conflict resolution skills, and out of a sense of powerlessness in our circumstances,...

There are times in life when we must endure suffering due to no fault on our part – or so it seems. Life circumstances can appear terribly unjust. Naturally we question, “Why me? Am I wrong? It’s not my fault!” Or we witness others suffering injustice, and are left wondering, “Why do bad things happen to good people?” Added to the many problems in everyday life, these situations can feel like the very definition of suffering. We may conclude that there is no God, q...

In today’s world, worry, stress and anxiety seem to have become part of daily life. Yet, who doesn’t wish to stop worrying, or wonder how to cure anxiety? Who doesn’t ask themselves what is peace of mind, and how can I live in peace? Some proclaim, “Do not worry!”, or “Stop worrying and start living”; others offer natural cures for anxiety, or teach how to get rid of negative thoughts. But the internal struggle continues… In the book “Worries”, Gnani Purush (embodi...

There are times in life when we must endure suffering due to no fault on our part – or so it seems. In painful circumstances, we naturally question, “Why me? Am I wrong? It’s not my fault!” Such situations may feel like the very definition of suffering. In the book “Fault is of the Sufferer”, Gnani Purush (embodiment of Self knowledge) Dada Bhagwan provides spiritual solutions to common and everyday forms of suffering such as dealing with difficult people, facing unhe...

Life requires continuous adjustment in relation to unpleasant and unfavorable circumstances. In everyday situations (such as opening an umbrella in the rain, or wearing a jacket in the cold) we generally don’t resist these required adjustments. However, when dealing with difficult people, facing unhealthy relationships, in family relationships, or in the midst of marriage problems, adjustments become increasingly difficult. Some of our relationships could even be said to...

In this part of Aptavani 14, Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan has unveiled the answers to all the questions regarding the Soul, which is one of the six eternal elements. Only one who is in experience of the Soul can make you recognize it, and experience it. And in this part of the Aptavani Series, Param Pujya Dadashri divulges all the secrets of the Soul, answering questions like: “How can you recognize and understand what the Soul is?”, “How can you prove the existence of the...

This Aptavani compiles Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan’s experiences of the Soul, its nature and its qualities. How Pujya Dadashri could take into use the qualities of the Soul, theoretically as well as practically, what was His experience, and how we also can use them to experience our Soul; all this is wonderfully explained here. And, by using those qualities, how can one maintain vitraagta (free from any desire) in the worldly circumstances; such matters have been simplified...

In moments of reflection, it is only natural to wonder what is the true purpose in life and to ask, behind the constant efforts made just in “living”, what is it that we are seeking? In the book “Self Realization”, Gnani Purush (embodiment of Self knowledge) Dada Bhagwan reveals the science of Self realization, describing that attaining knowledge of Self is ultimate life purpose, and is the beginning of lasting, permanent happiness. Pujya Dadashri explains that all...

In this part of Aptavani 14, Param Pujya Dada Bhagwan has uncovered the real understanding for reaching the state of Absolute Self by attaining Self realization. In Section 1, the knowledge regarding the Real and Relative form of the Self; during various phases of this worldly life, while binding karmas, while suffering karmas, while realizing the existence of True Self; has been disclosed by the Gnani Purush himself. In Section 2, a detailed understanding of the...

What is the meaning of salvation? To attain the state of Pure Soul – that which is natural – that which is innate. However, due to karma bondage and lack of knowledge (agyanta), we are unaware of our true state – that which is associated with being natural – being Pure Soul. So how do we attain innateness (sahajta)? Gnani Purush (the Enlightened One) knows the solution. And one such Gnani Purush, Dada Bhagwan has given us the key to sahajta. He has introduced us to Se...

Those seeking to lead a spiritual life may naturally become inspired to live in peace and non violence. To learn spiritual practices to develop these values, one may turn to spiritual teachers, to different types of religion, or to different types of yoga. But beginning to cultivate spiritual awareness is not always as simple as it seems – especially in family relationships, in unhealthy relationships, or while dealing with difficult people. Daily interactions such as...

Those seeking to lead a spiritual life inevitably face challenges in their sincere pursuit of spirituality and practice. As spiritual development progresses, facing the many unintentional mistakes made through mind, speech, and conduct can become disconcerting. Naturally one begins to wonder, “Is it too late to apologize?”, “How to forgive and forget in unhealthy relationships?” and, “How to forgive yourself - both for mistakes of the past and for ongoing mistakes in...

Men and women of the current era (Kaliyug) are filled with problems related to innate nature, resulting in differences of opinions, clash and discord. In the previous time cycles of satyug problems between men and women were nominal due to simplicity of their innate characteristics, which enabled them to adjust easily with one another. In this current time cycle of kaliyug the nature is such that the personalities of men and women lead to altercations. Married couples co...

Money has its own importance in our life. The world considers money and wealth as one of the most important things in life. People have love for money because it is needed for everything they do. That is why there is race worldwide to earn more money, whether it is by ethical or unethical means. People have also been bothered by the uneven distribution of money and wealth. In this dangerous era of Kaliyug, it is very difficult to remain ethical and honest in matters of m...

The relationship between parents and children is a fundamental link in one’s existence. Even our great Gods had parents whom they respected and revered. In today’s time this relationship is getting complex. Parents have a long list of complaints against their children such as that kids don’t obey them, wake up late, don’t study, pick up wrong habits, fight with others, etc. Children fail to meet their parents’ expectations. Similarly, kids feel that their parents don’...

Each and every human being has the capacity to identify his Soul and attain salvation. However, one severe obstacle on this path could be sexual attraction/infatuation. None other than a Gnani Purush (the Enlightened One) can help us understand the science behind sexual attraction and help us get rid of it. In the book, Pujya Dadashri, the Gnani Purush has discussed the importance of celibacy in the path of salvation…and how it can be achieved even by the married coup...

Each and every human being has the capacity to identify his Soul? and What is attain salvation. However, one severe obstacle on this path could be sexual attraction/ infatuation. None other than a Gnani Purush (the Enlightened One) can help us understand the science behind sexual attraction and help us get rid of it. In the book, Pujya Dadashri, the Gnani Purush has discussed the cause and effects of attraction that one feels towards the opposite sex. He has discussed...